Month of Friendship, Day 24: Surprise your BFF

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Surprise your girlfriendsWhen was the last time you surprised a friend, or she surprised you? Love a good surprise? I bet she does!

Was it a ‘big’ birthday or graduation? Was it a girlfriend gift you found that made you think of her? Was it a surprise visit when she had no idea you were nearby? It’s the “peek-a-boo” syndrome – generally, we love being surprised, when it’s a good surprise!

Or maybe we’re more like Oprah, who has said: “I love surprising people, I don’t like being surprised.” (But remember how her Producers LOVED to surprise her?!)

A Surprise is the greatest gift which life can grant us.

Boris Pasternak

Today’s ‘girlfriend challenge,’ in this Month of Friendship, is to surprise a friend and make her feel as special as her friendship is to you. Here’s a few idea on ways to surprise a friend:

  • Friendship Jen Mindy girlfriend surprise

    “School of Thoughtfulness” – Mindy and Jen are the two fabulous friends featured in the photo. Mindy returned home from vacation late one night. On her doorstep, a cooler filled with ‘breakfast’ – food for the following morning. Knowing she wouldn’t have anything to eat, her BFF Jen filled a cooler with everything needed to wake up to a great breakfast on her first day back home. (As Mindy says, she “studies at Jen’s ‘School of Thoughtfulness'” in this previous Girlfriendology blog.)

  • Have a Surprise Party – Even if it’s not her birthday or an official day of celebration, throw her a party – like Jill’s friend did for her (aka: Happy Jill Day!). Any day is a great day to celebrate and surprise a friend, right? Show up where she’d least expect you. Invite other friends to join you. Make it all about her and making sure she knows how much her friendship means to you.
  • Send a Surprise – Women love to receive flowers (like this bouquet of ‘friendship flowers‘), which can be an awesome surprise. Or get creative and send a box of helium balloons or a bunch of little gifts that you know she’ll love. Make your own gift basket filled with all her favorite items/products. Or send a card – or one every day for a month. Just let her know that you’d thinking of her.

And we had some amazing girlfriend surprises shared by our Facebook friends:

  • Cynthia Lee shared: One of my best friend just sent me a goodie package from Harry and David! She is the best!
  • Denise added: One of my friends sent me an email telling me to go outside and look under a bush near my driveway – she had left me a little garden statue that just spoke to my heart and left me smiling for days!
  • Paige offered: My dear friend in St. Lucia just sent me a monogrammed leather belt! We’ve never met in person, but I just love this girl!
  • Janelle broke our hearts with this story: I found out my friend was living in her car in another state (a week until her apt was ready) I canceled my vacation plans and sent her the money for a hotel. She tried to pay it back but I won’t take it. I’m glad I was able to help her. A gift of love is just that!
  • Janet shared: One of my best friends from high school just invited us to a villa in Cabo. Unfortunately, I can’t go because I have a convention that week, but I was so happy that she thought of us. Means a lot to me!
  • Janelle also offered: I would like to give special thanks to Deanna. I was in another state after back surgery and someone intentionally broke my cane, after seeing the trouble I was having trying to walk she gave me hers. We had just met.

Doesn’t that make you feel like surprising your BFF? What are you going to do for your best friend? Share and inspire!

Days 1-23 of our Month of Friendship:

Thanks for celebrating this MONTH OF FRIENDSHIP with us! Tomorrow … it’s cool to go to school with a girlfriend!

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  1. says

    I was at a football game and 5 of my friend were there, Olivia, Lauren, Jenna , Maggie, Care,
    Olivia and Lauren went together, me and care went together, and Jenna just showed up, just to let you know me and Olivia are arch enemies we used to be best friends because we were neighbors.
    me and care went up to the lauren and Olivia and said ” so, did you hear that people are saying that this game is going to be a good one?” then Olivia said ” hello… may we help you?” I said ” okay well if your going to be like that be like it but its not going to look too pretty on you if you keep that habit up.” Olivia walked away madly lauren came to just to make sure wear she is… ( lauren was not mad )
    me and care just left we just did our own thing 4 hours passed… we heard that lauren left with out Olivia ( something had to be wrong ) when me and my mom were in the car packing up to leave… my mom said ” did you hear that lauren was crying?” I said ” no… what’s wrong??? call her mom, I NEED to figure what’s happen to my bff!” my mom called ended up that Olivia and Jenna got together and gossiped lauren didn’t like it so she said ” hey, I don’t get why… why??? why you guys ALWAYS whisper about people… I guess kendall ( me ) was right I should of kept away from you.. oh and how do you think she feels huh from you guys taunting her??? being ignored??? good luck with that in high school cause you aren’t going to last…” she walked away balling her eyes out she left to go home… I sent her a message that was not pretty… me and lauren were stronger friends and I wanted to thank her for that… :) luv you lala!

  2. Caroline says

    My BFF is turning 57 in November. I’m going to be 30 next week. I booked a mountain cabin for her birthday, so a weekend away just us having a good time. I planned a few activities and I want to surprise her. She knows we are busy that weekend and not to make plans. When should I tell her where we are going? I want her to pack well for cooler weather. I made a brochure to give the good new BTW. Thanks!


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