Eulogy for a Perfect Dog – Thanks Stella (and thanks girlfriends for caring for me)
“Dave’s Girl Stella” AKA: Stella-BoBella, Wigglebutt, Silly Girl
It is with immeasurable sadness that I say good-bye to the best furry friend a girl could have. Our almost 12-year old Golden Retriever, Stella, passed away this week from a way-too-fast battle with cancer. Friday afternoon she was fine, that night she had trouble walking and it just went downhill.
I know the loss of a pet can’t compare with losing a child, husband or close ‘human’ but who couldn’t fall deeply in love with a face as sweet as hers? My sadness runs deep and my tears won’t end. She was our constant companion, best buddy, cheap entertainment, reason to exercise and favorite comedian. She was a friend I’ll never recover from losing.
Thanks first to Stella. She gave us years of love, laughter and joy. You’ll be missed forever.
Thanks too to my girlfriends. So many of my female friends have shown me great acts of sympathy and compassion. Dog-lovers/owners or not, they feel my pain and for that I am so grateful. Thanks to Deana for the gorgeous plant which will always remind me of Stella and also of your kind friendship. To Becky, who came right over to hug me, I love that you have a heart for dogs as well (and that you foster so many!). Thanks to Terri, Beth Anne, LL Cool J, Tina, Ruth Sara, Melody, Barb and so many other fabulous female friends who sent words of love and support. Thanks to Anne and Penny for trying to distract us with conversation and food/beverages. We need that – thanks!
I miss Stella. I really, really do. She was an amazing dog. But I’m also blessed with loving, caring girlfriends who are also amazing and are helping me through this sad time. Thanks to you all. I feel your hugs from all over, and it helps. Thanks, Debba
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Debba, I’m so sorry. I met Stella only once, but her sweet disposition–and gorgeous coat–made a instantly warm, comfortable, and friendly impression on me.
Stella’s life was a blessing and her friendship was a treasure. May God’s infinite love comfort you in the loss of both.
And I hope you can feel my very finite dollop of love on top–not much in the scheme of thngs, but heartfelt. My sympathy to you and Greg.
Dear Deborah and Greg,
I remember so many wonderful things about Stella… The first being that she always loved me even from our sketchy beginnings on Aylesboro with our rental truck and days of painting. The second being that she alerted me everyday to when our wonderful Steve would deliver the mail. Thirdly, not being a huge dog fan myself I found Stella to be a sweet companion always willing to give a little love whenever I needed it the most. She loved when I delivered homemade treats. I remeber her watching the tv or listening to the music channels. My daughter even loved to pet her which is huge because she wasn’t even as big as Stella for a long time.
Again I really am very sorry for your loss. We love you.
Bridget, Michael, Gretchen and Molly
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