Girlfriendology quote, that which does not kill us“That which does not kill us makes us stronger. “

- Friedrich Nietzsche –

Nietzsche’s classic quote may seem an odd way to begin a post on thankfulness and gratitude. If you’re like me, and I believe you are girlfriend, you probably find yourself thinking this particular thought whenever you’re having a bad, what-else-can-possibly-go-wrong day.

It’s one of life’s tough lesson that comes with time and trial: being thankful for the roadblocks life puts in our path. Getting over and around these obstacles is called “life experience” girlfriends, those learnable moments when we discover something positive about ourselves or in the world around us in dealing with difficulty. At best, what we learn from our experience will be of help to someone else in the future.

Ever wash reds and whites together in hot water? Experience, good or not so good, is the best teacher. Think back on how often you’ve been able to help someone with advice because of a bad experience you’ve had. Everything from coloring your hair to buying a car, your bad experience can help someone else from making the same mistake.

What I’m talking about here goes beyond looking for a silver lining, or in making the best of a bad situation. It comes from actively searching for the positives that can come out of negatives. Not just to deal with a tough situation, but to make something good out of it, and be thankful for the opportunity.

I’m not saying go out of your way to find something bad to happen to you so that you may learn from it. Those experiences have an uncanny way of finding us. When I began Girlfriendology it was because of a very difficult time in the lives of two of my best friends. Something good came out of that bad situation, and for that I am thankful and grateful.

So on this Thankful Thursday, let’s all be on the lookout for those things, big and small, that make our day anything but enjoyable. Actually, you don’t really need to be on the lookout for them, they will come find you. Sometimes it seems like they’re waiting in line.

And here’s your Thankful Thursday challenge for the week:

Each time you encounter something, anything, that goes against how you feel your day should be going, search with a purpose for any way that this experience will make you stronger, that this test will strengthen your perseverance, that what you learn will be of help to others.

In other words, if you’re having a really bad day, if you take it all in and learn from it, someday, somewhere , somehow something good will come of it. It may not be immediate, but it will happen. And when it does, you can rejoice in both the discovery of something good, as well as the trial of going through something bad.

Just remember, it’s not going to kill you. It’s going to make you stronger – and a better girlfriend.

As always, have a Thankful Thursday girlfriend!

Let’s make 2013 a special year – filled with friends and gratitude. Sounds like the winning combination for a wonderful year!

Thankful Thursday on Girlfriendology.com

Thankful Thursday on Girlfriendology.com

Expressing our Girlfriend Gratitude in 2013. Who are YOU thankful for? Get inspiration to make them as special as their friendship is to you! Share this with them!

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      Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. Oprah Winfrey Being thankful for what we have means more when you show your thanks through actively professing your gratitude - the more often, the better. If you're already actively incorporating a gratitude journal into your daily life, you know what a positive light it shines on your day.

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      "Happiness is the only thing that multiplies when you share it." Albert Schweitzer Thankful for something? Don't keep it to yourself! Get ready to amp up your happiness quotient girlfriend. The next time you have something, anything, to be thankful for - a terrific day at work, a great burn at the gym, a fabulous new pair of shoes - share your joy with a friend and multiply the magic.

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      "Silent gratitude isn't much use to anyone." G.B. Stern Be in the moment. Last week on Thankful Thursday, we touched upon overtly, purposefully, and joyfully sharing your gratitude about something in your life with a good friend - someone who is going to listen to your gratitude story and give you positive vibes back for sharing.

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      Friedrich Nietzsche - Nietzsche's classic quote may seem an odd way to begin a post on thankfulness and gratitude. If you're like me, and I believe you are girlfriend, you probably find yourself thinking this particular thought whenever you're having a bad, what-else-can-possibly-go-wrong day.

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      Thankful Thursday: Make a Note of it | The New Girlfriendology | Be a Better Friend | Inspiration, Girlfriends, Frien...

      "Fine writing is next to fine doing." - John Keats - How do you show your gratitude? When someone does something nice for you, how do you respond? Most often, a simple "thank you' will suffice. "Thanks for stopping by." "Thank you for the flowers." "Thank you so much for thinking of me."

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      I don't have digital. I don't have diddly squat. It's not having what you want. It's wanting what you've got. - Sheryl Crow - Thankful Thursday question of the day: Are you happy with what you have? Sure there are faster, finer cars, more fashionable clothes, and better jobs to be had.

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      Spontaneity has its time and its place. -Arthur Frank Burns- I got an e-mail a couple days ago that a very dear, long-time girlfriend was going to be in my town on business and was hoping to get together and catch up. Time to flip the spontaneity switch to the full on position.

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      Every gift from a friend is a wish for your happiness. Richard Bach But not just a gift - the perfect gift. We all find occasion to look for a great girlfriend gift. That special gift to commemorate a birthday, celebrating a new job, the birth of a child, a wedding shower, the holidays.

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